By: E. Orozco UNMARRIED the majority of the times was not properly a decision to remain unmarried. Were circumstances touching (insolvent relations), social (there was not one who fitted in socioeconomic estatus), relatives (nobody was sufficiently good for the papas), professional development (the race was first), intellectuals (was desired intelligence in a beautiful body) and even morals (they abounded patanes with little spiritual value), etc., those that they were marking rules, and without hardly occurring to account the time were taking terrain, and now they have arrived at the 40 without marrying. LEFT Very their grief the cowardice on the abandonment of domicile and the children lived on the part of whom it decided to recommence in another side, often with the consequent lack of fulfillment in his obligations as parents when denying to them presence, affection and sustenance. This estatus brings about the uncertainty of not knowing if it must or it is wanted to hope to which never it perhaps returns, or worse still, than it spends the time and a day without saying water the one goes that went by cigarettes did 3 right years nothing returns as if protesting and requesting explanations of what it did or with who was in which a day was its bed. WIDOWS Good or bad his husband was the best one, and who arrives he will have like competition this premise. Nevertheless the time is good friend, and also in these hearts it annoys the yearning to return to love. SINGLE WOMAN MOTHERS To be mother are a privilege that the majority of the women we considered blessed, and in this estatus the circumstances to be it single are many and very varied, but in the majority of the cases the common denominator has been the DECISION. The decision to have a son not to remain single; the decision of not aborting to that being product of a violation; the decision to be mother in spite of the familiar and social rejection, still and when it drags the sadness of knowing itself left by the man whom it loved; the decision to love the son product of one night crazy; the decision to be mother whatsoever and to all.