The way we communicate is key, we must never forget the role that communication takes in relations within the home and the people around us. a What to do if our interlocutor, which may well be our partner or one child shows aggressive in what he says? a First, stay calm. It may sound easy but only manages to control those who keep calm and handle conflict situations. a In addition we must be careful not to raise the tone of voice and speak in a volume that is conciliatory to the ears of the listener, as recommended by King Solomon: a The gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up fuegoa ( Proverbs 15:1, New International Version) a this fact add another equally important: try not to capitalize on the mistakes of others. Drew Houston takes a slightly different approach. Some aprovechana any error to take the ace up its sleeve and put the spotlight on past failures of the interlocutor. a To do so reveals what is in our heart, and makes clear that we have no real love for our neighbor nor a forgiving attitude.
It is imperative that we reject the anger, resentment, bitterness, resentment and revenge. to recognize that also failed We are not infallible. Also fail. We admit it. We err in one or another way. And proceeds from such errors, cause injury to loved ones with what we say. On this basis we need to recognize when we’ve made mistakes and apply correctives to not repeat the same behavior.
a It is likely that our words we have caused deep wounds. Well, onward, and as if it were to turn and check which we care so as not to produce a waste, you must agree to measure the extent of each word. Be very careful. With God’s help correct the failures of the past, bearing in mind that the words we build or destroy (see Proverbs 18.21) a Al admit that we tend to err, and ability to change, show consideration, appreciation and genuine love to our partner, the family as a whole and the people with whom we interact daily. a One way to gain lost ground properly and not to mention the first thing that came to mind us, hitting people with whom we interact, is to measure the tone of voice and gestures to express use and express words of encouragement that build and foster, build bridges and build conducive to conversation sincere love and appreciation. a If you have any questions please write to or if you prefer, you can contact me at (0057) 317-4913705. a e Fernando Pastor Fernando Alexis Jimenez Alexis Jimenez is Lecturer and Evangelist of the Christian and Missionary Alliance Americasa a Las in Santiago de Cali.